One of the most significant questions each of us can ask ourselves is how may I serve?

With the unprecedented political changes in the United States after last week’s Supreme Court ruling that overturned Roe vs. Wade, many women now question their options regarding their bodies—especially for couples who struggle with the inability to get pregnant or carry a baby to term.

With so much on the line, many are struggling to understand the future of families.

This week I sat down with my friend Kelsey Garrison, who has been at the forefront of serving a family as a surrogate. We talk about her calling to serve, how her experience changed her, and her advice for women who find themselves wanting to help others.

This next hour is a beautiful conversation of faith, family, and service.

Key Takeaways:

00:00 Introduction

02:00 Kelsey’s story begins

02:54 The push of purpose that called Kelsey to serve a family

07:03 Women’s rights, gay rights, and reproductive choice in the US and China

09:50 It’s a match—when purpose turns into action

11:05 The journey of surrogacy and emotional attachment

14:01 2020 shutdown and how you explain to another child

15:43 COVID changes everything, and Kelsey’s life becomes in danger

18:30 HELP syndrome causes early delivery

19:33 A plea for her own life and request

21:04 An odd disconnect between mind, body, and soul when hard things occur

22:40 Digesting your moments—the power of progressing your story

24:27 Covid changes Kelsey’s plan. The next time Kelsey sees the baby is months later

27:53 Sometimes, the moments we hope for are not the moments we receive

29:29 Emotional awareness is what helps us move through life

31:39 A beautiful meeting and the moments we want come in their own way

34:50 Life always gives us uphill moments to help move us to where we need to be

38:53 Kelsey’s advice for anyone interested in surrogacy and supporting others in parenthood

40:39 Our support systems come from places we never expected

43:33 “Do things that bring you joy!”

45:37 Kelsey’s three things

Kelsey is an inspiration, a true warrior in a way that reminds each of us not to push aside what comes to us and won’t leave our thoughts. Because of Kelsey, a family is now complete.

If you are interested in serving couples who now have fewer options, I encourage you to do research, reach out in your local communities, and never reject anything you are genuinely being called and led to do.

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