Fear, it’s a nasty word and an even nastier emotion. It keeps us caught in small boxes. It keeps us from showing up to our present life, future, relationships, jobs, families, you name it. If fear is present, you are not thriving to your fullest potential.

That’s why you and I are taking one-on-one deep dive into the fear of making the wrong choice! Fear is the biggest enemy to your decision-making, and it can hold you captive even when the stacks feel like life and death. So, if you have ever found yourself uncertain, feeling “stuck,” unable to move forward, or wishing someone else could choose for you, this is the conversation for you!

So, let’s dive right in.

Key Takeaways

00:00 Introduction

02:09 We are all forced to make big decisions

03:33 Do you have the telltale catchphrase “I don’t know” in your daily language? What it means if you do

05:24 What fear is and the real-life fear definition

10:59 The more challenging an experience, the greater the fear if we do not have our mindset and thought process in check

14:18 The “Law of Average,” according to my father, Dan

17:30 The five levels of decision-making  

18:30 Level 1 - Freeze

18:53 Level 2 – Passive Pleasing   

20:26 Level 3 – Sitting in the Middle

20:49 Level 4 – Assertive Action

22:32 Level 5 – Energetic, Enthusiastic Decision-Making

26:48 Make some actionable decisions    

28:05 Reduce the number of decisions in the situation

30:47 Find the why  

31:12 Shift your P-O-V

34:01 When self-trust is lacking, fear knocks  

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